Goodbyes Aren’t Forever (But This One Still Feels Like It Is)

I always try to be honest on this blog, especially when something touches me emotionally, so here goes.

I had to say goodbye to a longtime colleague today. Things are changing at work and well he was nearing retirement so it was a logical decision. I accept it.

But just because I accept it doesn’t mean it won’t hurt as much. Everyone says your coworkers are just that. You work in the same office.

When I think about it though, I’ve worked with this man for 6 years. We knew the ins and outs of each others lives. We finished each other’s sentences and knew what the other was thinking before they even said it. We were a great team. And when I did the math, those 6 years came out to be 1,500 days, or 12,000 hours.

That’s probably more time spent with him than my own family.

So no. He wasn’t just someone I worked with. If that makes me less of an ideal employee, then I’m ok with that. Because at least I know I have a heart.

An Impromptu Cooking Lesson: Young Coconut Drink

Last weekend while at my parents house, my dad showed me some young coconut they purchased from the 99 Ranch store in Plano the other day. He decided to open a few to show me how to prepare a drink they used to make since I admitted I’d purchased one a long time ago but couldn’t figure out how to get it open, wasting it. And of course since I already had my camera with me, I decided to photograph them as they worked and told stories.

Mom said when they were younger, they couldn’t boil noodles at night for pancit because the Japanese would see the light of their cooking fires, so they would shred coconut and use that as their noodles instead.

Dad said he used to chew on the coconut fibers because it was kinda sweet (Mom cringed and said she never did that!)

Coconut water is all the rage these days with celebrity doctors like Dr. Oz praising it for its health benefits. And although it may be healthy, it can also be expensive to buy in the bottled form.

However, if you’ve got a big cleaver and don’t mind a workout, buying young coconut in its original form can be much better for you (no preservatives or additives).

Young coconut for coconut water.

This is what young coconut looks like when you buy it from the grocery or the asian store. It’s usually this weird looking shape, pointed at the top, and wrapped in plastic wrap.

[Read more...]

CLOSED: Once Upon a Family Keepsake Recipe Album and Recipe Box Giveaway

Friday night, I called my mom to tell her I was going to be taking a photo of her for my blog, she said, “Oh good! I just got my haircut today!”

“Oh really? Did Daddy cut it?” I asked. For years my dad cut my mom’s hair. It was a functional haircut, but not always fancy.

“No, I fired him when I retired,” she said. “I pay a professional to cut my hair now.” (I bet you can’t guess where my sense of humor came from)

Say hi to my mom and dad, Shirley and Sonny. Initially this post was going to be my mom and how she taught me how to cook, but my dad was home and didn’t want to be left out so we included him too :)

Plus he actually did teach me a few things about cooking, like what not to do in the kitchen, such as reheat stuff on the stove on high.

Not to completely discredit dad’s culinary skills because he IS great on the grill and can smoke a mean brisket, but that’s a future blog post :)

Mom did teach me a lot about cooking growing up. Her food has always been the envy of others and not just the dishes she makes, but her method. Everyone is always surprised at how she can cook a grand family meal in her cramped galley kitchen at a moment’s notice. At her parties, there was always fresh food on the table the entire evening.

For a long time, I’ve been meaning to gather our family recipes for a album and that’s where today’s sponsor, Once Upon a Family, comes in. After writing this blog post, I realized how valuable these few hours I spent with them were, and I encourage you to do the same with your loved ones.

Once Upon a Family creates products that help you maintain family traditions, and create new ones. For a limited time, Once Upon a Family will be offering their recipe organizer for $25 and will also include a recipe box (inset picture above) for FREE (offer ends March 5, 2012). I’ll be giving one set (an album AND a recipe box) to 1 lucky winner. Check the end of this post to find out how you can win one!

Today, we’ll be showing you a recipe called pancit. Pancit is a Filipino noodle dish that my mom always prepared at least once a week when we were kids, sometimes even more frequently. It’s an easy, flavorful dish that feeds a large family on a budget and reheats beautifully in the microwave. And one thing to keep in mind about pancit is that every family has their own recipe, this just happens to be our family’s recipe.

[Read more...]

Women Everywhere Are Having This Exact Same Conversation

Caroline: Ok cool, I have an appointment at 12 but I’ll come over when I’m done. I didn’t have breakfast so I’ll probably be starving.
Me: I can make a snack. I wanted to try making this baked potato dip.
Caroline: Oh really? Is it from Pinterest?
Me: lol yup!
Caroline: lol

Behold! The Wedge Salad!

 

I’ve been obsessed with wedge salads lately, for no particular reason other than the fact that I’m bored with my usual salads (and it’s so dang easy). It’s rare that I actually get to use natural light to take food photos but this particular day I happened to be at home for lunch so I did an impromptu shoot in front of my office window.

Oh, and the blue cheese dressing? Homemade. And uh-maaa-zing.

[Read more...]